February 2017

This past week, my wife asked what I thought about us getting a puppy for the boys  and I froze. She tried to explain her thinking that it would give them a chance to learn some responsibility and help with Boy B staying calm. All I could think was that I was going to be adding to my responsibility at the house. And I wasn’t even factoring in additional costs for Dog food, toys, Vet visits, etc.

After conversations between my wife and I, we decided to take the boys to meet her. So we sat the boys and talked with them about the puppy and that we were thinking about getting her. We showed them photos and even talked about what responsibilities they each would have with her. And as soon as they asked if we were getting a dog, I just new even without seeing her, we were getting a dog.

So that night as I put the boys to bed, Boy A asked if he could walk her everyday and Boy B wanted to read to her. Immediately, they started to get that they were going to have to take on things in order to get the puppy and they were excited! Really EXCITED! And all I could think about was, when I was a kid and having my first puppy and then I was sold. And it was at that moment, we basically became the All-American family with 2 kids, a house with a fence and now a puppy.

Fast forward a week to yesterday afternoon and the boys got to meet their puppy for the very first time and it was love at first sight. She is a 3, soon to be a 4 year old Yorkie and is great with the boys. Boy A has already taken her on 2 walks, with assistance of either my wife or myself. And Boy B had her in his lap last night reading “Whose Foot Prints?” to her and she just laid there and both were calm and peaceful.  There are some training things that I started this morning with her, but so far, so good. The transition to a new home and for us to adjust to her has gone really well.

 

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The word grateful can mean different things to different people and can be viewed in many ways.

warmly or deeply appreciative of kindness or benefits received; thankful: dictionary.com

The key phrase here for me is benefits received because usually with being grateful, it goes with someone or something. For me, today I am grateful for second chances. I’m grateful in knowing that even though I’ve made mistakes in my life, things could be a lot worse.

I’m also grateful for friends and family too. I’m grateful for my son’s who love me unconditionally, as I am not perfect, but try my best to do what is best and right by them.

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I’ve listened to Jim Brickman several times today and one of the songs that I come back to is Valentine.  This is one of the many lines that just rings true to me in this moment.

if the sun refused to shine
even if romance ran out of rhyme
you would still have my heart
until the end of time
you’re all I need, my love, my valentine

My wife and I have just come off a great weekend in the mountains and we had 2 options:

  1. go back to status quo.
    or
  2. fix the things that are broken.

We are and have tried to fix things that are broken or at least adjust things so that they are at lceast stabel.  And my wife just tested me and I smiled as sure. how long is she here to cure on the newer magazine.

 

 

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Sometimes, you just need a weekend getaway to help clear your mind. And that is exactly what my wife and some friends are doing. It looks to be a nice weekend for a trip to the mountains and something that I’ve needed for a while.

The boys have been doing great in school, working through some behavioral issues. But getting there. And today marks their 100th day in Kindergarten. It seems strange that they have been to school 100 days already and it seems like yesterday they were getting on the bus for the first time.

100 days down and 80 more to go. But for now, it is time to plan and pack for a weekend getaway in the mountains. Sleeping in and hiking. Sadly, no skiing, as my Orthopedic has told me unless I want to have another knee surgery, that skiing is no longer an option.

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